This wasn't the same as asking a bake shop to put same sex figures on top of a wedding cake. It was a cake with message. Had the owners of the shop been gay and refused to make a cake with a female and male as bride and groom, the two situations would compare quite nicely. It does no cause good when antagonism is used as a means to achieve it.
Where's the Feds? Where's all the "Civil Wrongs" crowd? Why haven't they been driven out of business? Huh?