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For all my touchy, feely friends at SE

May 31, 2006 10:00AM PDT

An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which she carried across her neck.

One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own

imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream. "I am ashamed of

myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"

"That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and

every day while we walk back, you water them."

"For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you

being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make

our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

SO, to all of my crackpot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers

on your side of the path! And send this to any or all of your cracked Pot friends with

in 5 minutes and see what happens!

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Sent to my wife....she loves it
May 31, 2006 10:14AM PDT

Women are just that way, I guess. Happy

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(NT) (NT) What sensitivity training?
May 31, 2006 10:33AM PDT
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Sensitivity training is something women give to men
May 31, 2006 11:00AM PDT

and we have to go along with it...or at least pretend to if we expect them to stick around. Happy

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(NT) (NT) Yep...and I like that cracked pot story..
May 31, 2006 11:44AM PDT
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Subject line
Jun 1, 2006 6:32AM PDT

Kinda funny how many people won't touch certain subjects if worded right!

Tom

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Only because
Jun 1, 2006 7:18AM PDT

I don't see myself as a touchy feely kinda woman Happy Good story thoHappy

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Only
Jun 1, 2006 7:24AM PDT

If you weren't I'd have no reason to like you! Have to admit I was curious as to who would or wouldn't read the post. Just an imp.

Tom

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I read it as soon as you posted:)
Jun 1, 2006 7:45AM PDT

LOL!!! Ya think I am really touchy feely and just won't admit it??? Will have to ask Evie if she thinks I amHappy

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You don't know all who read it
Jun 1, 2006 8:15AM PDT

but just those who replied. Some just choose or don't know how to respond. As for myself, I just steal the material and use it for my own gain. Happy As for being "touch feely", I think what causes such varies from person to person. I like the look of nice flowers but would never buy them for myself or care to receive them. I will get them for my wife because she has a strong appreciation for that. It makes her happy....and seeing her happy makes me happy. Happy ...or at least less threatened. Devil

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(NT) (NT) Poor Baiting Subject Line..Good Story However
Jun 1, 2006 9:18AM PDT
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Thanks Tom. Didn't know there were any touchy feely friends
Jun 3, 2006 2:38PM PDT

at SE, but you and they have enlightened me. Now if somebody will kindly remove the lightbulb from my posterior, I will e-mail someone else with this. Wink

Rob