I guess the Nintendo Wii si going to be the best especially for kids as it has less of those 'hardcore' games and is simple. Even adults will like the way the Wii works so I guess the Wii si best for you. Secondly as it is a first purchase, it is better to go for something cheap.
There are many choices this holiday gift-giving season. We are considering a game system for the younger kids in the family, but also one the grownups will not be bored with.
Is the Nintendo Wii a good first purchase? PS3 seems way too expensive for the kids.
We know the kids like MLB Baseball, Madden Football, and Super Mario Bros, for starter games.

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