a high power IR strobe/light
Or get a light that is a pure white and put a diffuser over it.
Lately I have been filming events as a hobby as I enjoy editing the videos, especially for weddings and other parties. I use a very basic Sony HC minidv camcorder, which is fine for the type of work I am doing for now. My major problem is poor lighting once I get inside. Does anyone have any recommendations on what type of exterior light I can use that will improve the picture quality but not be disturbing to guests?

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