1. What is "winmail"? If you mean 'Windows mail' it's not a service, it's a program. Or is it email-provider (something www.winmail.com)?
2. Can you email to other people and is your daughter the only one you can't reach? Or can you email to nobody at all?
3. What exactly do you mean with "returned"? Is it being sent (so it appears in your Sent Items) is it not being sent?
4. Are you sure you send the mail to her correct email address?
Kees
My daughter and I have the same isp internet connections. I us Winmail as my primary email service, when I send her a email it she does not get it. It will be returned to me stating that could not locate server, this is a permanent error. However she can email me and I receive the email. We are both using verizon.
If anyone has a thought appreciate your input. I spent a half hour with verizon and did not help.

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