That business of her fighting the restraining order is not good. I once had a job installing those 'help I've fallen' systems, and I had two women who refused to accept them, although they were paid for by children. It was probably pride, which can bring down any of us.
A friend had a similar problem in his family, and it was his brother to whom neither parent could say no. The other siblings would have him removed whenever he turned up. I don't know how that turned out.
I know about Stan Lee's case; just showed up in the news last week or so.
Can someone else be there physically? A more distant relative or a church member? Sometimes live-ins can be supplied by social services, but of course she has to accept their "interference".
That Radisson bill sounds strange. Have you talked to motel management about it?
One step, always taken reluctantly, is to get control of her finances legally. You would have to show, I think, that she's not able to handle them. Not only is that difficult and wrenching, but it sounds like it may not be the case here.
In real life, no superheroes or Moderators. ![]()
Read https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/stan-lee-needs-a-hero-elder-abuse-claims-a-battle-aging-marvel-creator-1101229 if you can.
Even I am dealing with elder abuse issues as some moochers continue to ask my mother for money, gas, payment for chores and so on. My brother and I have ejected them from the home we provide for mom yet we can't be there 24x7 to stop them from dropping by.
And yes, there is another shoe to drop as we consider restraining orders but mom feels that's not needed and in fact has countered with her getting an attorney to thwart the restraining order.
Never thought I'd have to deal with this. Mom's 84 and keeps working to pay for other people's bills for cell phones, insurance and amazingly the weekly bill at a Radisson motel.

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