Then many of the higher end point and shoots match the shutter lag of the DSLRs. The Sony H20 would not be my first choice. The best superzooms now appear to be the Panasonic cameras. They win in compact and full size superzoom comparisons.
If you buy the D3000 then you will have a camera will very little zooming capability, unless you spend a lot more money to get a decent telephoto lens. Also the kit lens is not the fastest, so it's not a guarantee unless you know what you are doing. DSLRs are for control. Point and shoot cameras are for no thought shooting and that's what you sound like you want.
I am looking to get a new digital camera and would like to spend under $300. HOWEVER, I am extremely tempted by the Nikon D3000. The only reason for my temptation, however, is that I desperately want to take pictures of my fast-moving children. I know the DSLRs will give me that--but they will also give me a whole lot of extras I won't necessarily use or need--as a mom of young ones, I don't really have the time to learn to use them, as much as I'd like to.
So the basic question is this: what non-DSLR camera has little shutter lag (mostly in well-lighted conditions or with a flash) AND a short shot-to-shot time? Is the Sony DSC-H20 as good as it gets, or are there better cameras? Is it remotely worth going $200 out of my budget just to get good, time-accurate pics of my kiddos?
Thanks for any feedback!

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