They still haven't credited my credit card even after my second request for them to do it but I can show the credit card company that I at least tried... They sent me another email saying they were looking in to it. I really don't think they're going to go into hiding because this has to be way too profitable for them to continue to do this. Other info about scams I found showed similar names like musicdownload.net, myipodownloads.com, pspblender.com, etc. and I wonder if they're all the same company(?. After I realized what an idiot I was I looked up eDirectSoftware since that's what it said the credit card transaction would show and they were listed on pricegrabber.com. There were numerous 5 star ratings, however, I noticed a lot of them were from "anonymous" and think it's probably someone from these organizations skewing the ratings. The 1 star ratings indicated that the software was not legitimate or was for educational purposes, problems with orders not being shipped, with credit cards being charged monthly in addition to the original charge, and all sorts of problems that indicate this is a very crooked company. If I remember correctly their address is conveniently listed in Canada.
Although I'm sorry so many others got taken in too, I do feel a little better knowing that I wasn't the only one