Don't feel bad, I find the Java web site to be one of the most confusing I've had to navigate.
http://java.com/en/download/windows_xpi.jsp
I have Windows 98SE and protected well with my applications - but I need Java Runtime environment to be able to access all the bits in openoffice.
I find Java in Explore/windows but cannot tell what it is when I look at properties.I do not have the 'teacup' on my desktop and Java does not show in start/programs.
I had tried to download specifically the J2SE from Sun but all that happens is the popup showing it to download just keeps going and does not finish.
I tried to download windows installer as I read I needed that...when it finished it told me I already had it.
Many times of trying different things on the Sun site I get "The page cannot be displayed".I tried detect network settings here...and get nowhere.
I went into tools on my browser then internet options
and then advanced, I ticked the Java console disabled (requires restart) and also Java logging enabled.
It doesn't make any difference -other than before I did that I got page cannot be displayed for even downloading.
Looking at the java folder in explore it has classes/packages/trustlib/javalog.
Any ideas anyone?
Thank you
Mandy

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