i am in the same boat. i have a samsung pn50c8000 plasma 3d hdtv
Dear friends, I bought the Call of Duty Black Ops last week and I tried playing it in 3D through my PS3 and Samsung LCD740 which are connected via an HDMI cable. Altough I turn my LCD 740 to 3D mode, the Stereoscopic 3D option within the CoD Black Ops settings is greyed out, not allowing me to ply in 3D.
Any ideas how to solve this ?

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