In order to get DSL from my phone company (AT&T), I needed to use one of their own brand 2Wire Modem/Routers. This works fine with two Macs and two PCs connected, even wirelessly. When I tried to use the Apple Base Station, it wouldn't work with AT&T, and a phone call to them gave me the "Sorry, our system does not support Apple". I know I've been given methods in various forums in how to make the Apple Base Station work, but it was pretty convoluted, so I stuck with the AT&T Modem/Router that worked. Part two of my installation was that I wanted to do the wireless iTunes to Stereo routine. The AT&T router does not work, so I used an Apple Express Base Station. In a perfect world I should be able to use the same Modem/Router for both DSL and iTunes, but it's not a perfect world, so I accepted the fact that when I want to steam iTunes I simply choose the Apple Network for the iTunes computer. Macs work perfectly with other brands Modem/Routers, so you don't need an Apple model.
My Airport Extreme Base station just gave out this week so I need to replace it. I had the first version of the Gigabit models and I know there's a newer version out but I am also looking heavily at the Linksys E3000. I know the E3000 is cheaper but that is not the deciding factor. I want the parental controls that the E3000 has and it seems like the AEBS doesn't have parental controls.I have always tried to buy Apple products though and I want to know, am I giving up any features by going to the E3000 instead of staying with the Apple model? It seems when it comes to the actual hardware they are very similar. When I looked at the Airport Utility I noticed there is a section to set it up with MobileMe and when I did research on Google I found an article from 2008 from Apple stating that in order to use Back to My Mac an AEBS is required. Is this still the case or does it just need a certain protocol that is now available in other routers such as the E3000? Are there any other possible features that I give up by not getting an AEBS?I haven't really had much luck getting Back to My mac working reliably with even the AEBS but it's a feature I want to use more in the future so don't want to give this up.Thank you for your help.

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