put your finger on an app that is fully loaded.
Wait until the apps start to "shiver"
Hit the X on the one that did not fully load.
It should ask if you want to delete it.
Alternatively, attach the device to you computer and do a sync. Once sync'd, remove the App from iTunes and resync.
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I was trying to install an application and something went weird and the app stopped installing. Now I have this greyed out box with waiting on it and it never installs. I cant hold my finger on it and delete it as the cross doesn't appear, I cant move it to the last page and drop it off the screen either.
Is there a way t remove the application? Come to think of it I can't even remember the app it was.
Thank you.

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