Easy things to try:
1. Shift + delete in stead of normal delete to the recycle bin.
2. Rename file and folder to something shorter before deleting.
3. Delete from command prompt.
Somewhat more difficult:
4. Boot to a Linux disk or stick and delete it from their file manager.
By the way, what's an "Excel folder"?
Kees
Trying to delete an excel file and folder, but get this message: "The file names would be to long for the destination folder"
Thanks.
CN

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