Said "special" software is free. I know that CDBURNERXP has an ISO write and there is some smaller version that write's ISOs that I can't recall that fits in your email.
As to moving gigabytes, if you can solve how to compress a 4.7GB DVD down to something that fits inside an email, you probably be famous if not rich.
-> What I find works best is to mail the DVD.
Bob
PS. Since the OS that most use can't write the ISO, your request fails.
I am aware how to burn a DVD from an .ISO image file. While this works OK, it requires an external program such as Nero, or Roxio Media Creator to get the job done. Another drawback to this method is that the .ISO file is usually quite large (in the GB's).
Ultimately, I guess I am looking for a way to send my authored dvd information thru the internet (with reasonable file size) and allow someone on the other end to easily create a dvd from my file without them having to have special software.
I am probably looking for software which does not yet exist.
If such software does exist, or if anyone has any ideas on how to accomplish my goal in another way, I would appreciate any feedback.

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