the 'universal' option for collapsing/expanding in threads?
I can't give you a link right now because I am having problems getting access to any posts/threads, either in IE8 or Firefox. I've only just manage to get here somehow and I am not sure if this post will take.
Assuming it does, and trying to remember what I have seen;
Under the first post in any thread should be a "Expand All" and "Collapse All" option. Then each 'child thread' or sub-thread has it's own + or - sign.
That means you can collapse all under the first post, then just expand sub-threads as you wish. or possibly vice-versa.
I seem to remember, but again my memory is hazy, that the forum software or possibly a cookie will remember the last Collapse all/Expand all option you have chosen for other discussions/threads.
Mark
The + or - signs for collapsing/expanding posts will take some getting used to.
Personally I think it would make more sense to put them on the left since we are used to seeing graphical displays of branching threads on the left. I can't think of any other forum I have ever used that collapsed and expanded using a control on the right.
Also, I was surprised that 'collapsing' or 'expanding' just affects individual posts. Others may well feel differently, but I would have expected 'collapsing' to affect all of the replies to a thread, not just the individual post.

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