Hi jcridge,
Thanks for your question! Since the problems started when you reset the network, I'm going to guess that there may be some setting on the access point or router that prohibits those kinds of commands as a form of network security.
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I've previously managed to get my CLP365W connected to a network in infrastructure mode, and have it automatically 'wake up' when any new print job was sent to it. This was working day after day, sometimes with several days between print jobs.
I recently had to reset my access point and went through the whole CLP365W network set up process again. Now the printer doesn't seem to want to wake up unless I manually turn it on and off again. This partly defeats the whole wireless feature.
Can anyone help here ? I'm sure it must be a setting somewhere but I can't find it in the set up process documentation
Thanks

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