The cable/sat companies control the number of devices that are supported with their remotes. At this point, there's no code bank that we could create for that product line.
What you can do is enable Anynet+ on both devices which will allow you to control both devices with the television's remote. However, I don't have a solution for using the cable remote, unfortunately.
Thanks for the kind words.
Charter Cable provide the following remote with our HD/DVR UR4U?MDVR?CHD2 at http://www.charter.com/customers/support.aspx?menuitem=2 the second one from the right, I have tried all of the codes available with Samsung to work on the HT-BD1250 and none of the codes seem to operate it. Had no problem getting the LN52B750 to work on that remote.
Also wondering if I should use one of the Samsung remotes rather than the cable remote, any thoughts would be much appreciated.
Let me just say after 4 days of ownership I love my having HD.