in what he told you to do.
one of the lines in the boot.ini file reads something like this:
default=multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\WINDOWS
under the Operating systems heading you will see that same exact info on a line with additional text added to it. All you have to do is change the default to the other OS you desire the system to default to.
In the example below I have changed the boot.ini file to default to Windows 2000
ORIGINAL BOOT.INI FILE WITH DEFAULT OS AS WIN XP
The default and the OS line it is copied from are in bold text to help you see them
[boot loader]
timeout=10
default=multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\WINDOWS
[operating systems]
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\WINDOWS="Microsoft Windows XP Professional" /noexecute=optin /fastdetect
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(1)\WIN2K="Microsoft Windows 2000 Professional" /fastdetect
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\SafeMode="MS Win XP Pro Safe" /fastdetect /SAFEBOOT:NETWORK
C:\CMDCONS\BOOTSECT.DAT="Microsoft Windows 2000 Recovery Console" /cmdcons
BOOT.INI FILE WITH DEFAULT OS altered to Windows 2000
The new default and the OS line it is copied from are in bold text to help you see them
[boot loader]
timeout=10
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(1)\WIN2K
[operating systems]
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\WINDOWS="Microsoft Windows XP Professional" /noexecute=optin /fastdetect
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(1)\WIN2K="Microsoft Windows 2000 Professional" /fastdetect
multi(0)disk(0)rdisk(0)partition(2)\SafeMode="MS Win XP Pro Safe" /fastdetect /SAFEBOOT:NETWORK
C:\CMDCONS\BOOTSECT.DAT="Microsoft Windows 2000 Recovery Console" /cmdcons
This link will give you an education on the boot.ini file:
http://vlaurie.com/computers2/Articles/bootini.htm
I have a dual boot system, with a partition disk for my two win xp, one called Pro tools, and one called Normal. But I'd like to reverse the order the boots appears when I start the computer. As of now if I leave the 30 second go, it's my pro tools boot up that starts and is on top of the selection. What I would like is to have the Normal boot section on top and that this one gets selected after the 30 second delay.
Is there a way to do this?

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