I would like to have a camera that fit that description.

The SD500 and SD550 have the best flash - 16.4 feet.

The Casio Z750 has manual controls.

The SD700 has image stabilization.

Continuous Performance figures can be found here:

http://www.steves-digicams.com/2005_reviews/ex-z750_pg5.html

http://www.steves-digicams.com/2005_reviews/sd550_pg6.html

Shooting in low light with no flash - All will require a tripod to prevent blurring.

Video Quality - all are good.

Here is a look at their specifications side-by-side:

http://www.dpreview.com/reviews/compare_post.asp?method=sidebyside&cameras=canon_sd400%2Ccanon_sd450%2Ccanon_sd500%2Ccanon_sd550%2Ccanon_sd700is%2Ccasio_exz750&show=all

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