I will share that when I need a boot diskette I just head to http://www.bootdisk.com and fetch the one I want and run the .exe that creates it.
I will not offer support on how to fix Windows ME bug in this area.
Since you did write "i also must tell you i do not have a windows me disk it was installed by someone else so i have no disk" I must also share you won't be running this OS much longer as you have no right to the os PLUS you have no way to repair it.
-> Plan your exit strategy today and keep what you can't lose on a copy off that machine on attached hard disks.
have windows me when i try to make a backup disk it says:the file 'aspi2dos.sys' was not found
also under add remove programs i unchecked a few things i wasnt using when i went to go recheck them it says file not found for everything how can i fix this i also must tell you i do not have a windows me disk it was installed by someone else so i have no disk what can i do to try to fix this?