Hi, sorry to hear about your issues.
Could you please post the memory issue message you got? If you ran the memory diagnostic tool from Windows you should have it in the Windows Event Viewer (http://www.sevenforums.com/tutorials/95368-memory-diagnostics-tool-read-event-viewer-log.html). You could have a defective DIMM but it could also be some other issue.
You could also run this tool (http://www.techpowerup.com/gpuz/) and post the results here (screenshots) so I could take a look at it and see if I find anything unusual.
Kyle
So I have had this problem for a while now and I can't seem to find what it is.
My monitor is basically producing a horizontal wavey line whenever I scroll through a web page/watch a video/play a game (screen tearing?) At one point I didn't have this problem for a few months I believe and it just came back about a month or two ago.
I've replaced all the cables, made sure everything is plugging in correctly, updated all my drivers, disabled on board graphics. I have even tested with different monitors and still have the problem.
Today I was pretty fed up and went from an AMD radeon HD 6850 to a nvidia geforce gtx 660. The problem is still there but it doesn't seem as....extreme.
I just ran a diagnostic tool and it says that I have a hardware issue. When I logged into windows I received a pop up stating that I have memory issues. I'm using 16 GB of this ram.
http://www.newegg.ca/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16820231311&nm_mc=TEMC-RMA-Approvel&cm_mmc=TEMC-RMA-Approvel-_-Content-_-text-_-
Is this my ****ing problem? lol. Could the ram be the cause of my headache or maybe something to do with the motherboard?
Any suggestions/questions please!!!!

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