Use Ctrl/Alt/Delete to end all running tasks except Explorer and Systray, then Defrag. This works for me with Win98fe and Win98se and also worked for Win95.
My ME defrag program starts but doesn't get past 0 or 1%. I believe that it restarts continuously because some program is writing to the hard drive, but I don't know how to figure out what program is the culprit. Anyone have any ideas?
I'm using an HP Pavilion XE783 running Windows ME. Norton Antivirus is loaded but I disable it to try to defrag. I tried using Norton Utilities to defrag and experience the same problem.

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