Excuse my ignorant but what are you really looking for?
Yes it's a MIL problem.
My mother in law loves to put me and my spouse down, mostly for our weight. We've asked her to not do so, but apparently her brain cannot adapt.
So now we are not returning her calls & she's taken to paper and pen. She wrote Java scathing letter.
How does a typical non-confrontational person handle this? Spouse & I are united but neither wants to address the issue. I kind of feel like it's in the ignore it and it gets worse category.
Is there an app for this?