Either Canon EOS20D ( and upcoming 30D )or Nikon D200 will definitely suit your need. In additions, you can shoot in the continuous mode for 5 frames per second; therefore, you won't miss any wanted shot. DSLR handle shutter lag the best, but you must have a budget to spend for accessories, such as lenses and external flash.
hi! I'm looking for a digital camera that takes shots like an original film camera. The delay in our digital is so slow and I wind up missing some great shots of our 5 month old baby. Can someone recommend a good one?
Thanks!

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