If my guess is correct, you don't have a "BD writer", just a BD player.
Hello,
I recently built a new PC that I installed an LG BD-ROM/DVD Rewriter. With the optical came a Super Multi Blue Install Disc for Windows Ver. 1.1a. I installed the software with no problems until now. A few weeks ago I purchased a Sony BD-RE (25 GB) to be used to store a bunch of pictures, music, videos, and docs in-case of a harddrive failure. Last night I went to copy all of these files to the BD-RE and burn, however, when I placed the disc in the optical, the drive does not even recognize there's a disc and it spits the disc back out. I talked to a friend about this today who told me that a lot of the BD burners will have problems reading and writing to a BD-RE and it is necessary to install a third party software that will allow this to be accomplished. Any truths to this or advice on how to deal with this? Thanks.

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