to be in a neat row before it will work.
Of prime importance is an IP address which is Static. If you don't know the IP address of the router you are trying to remotely access, you will never connect to it.
That said, take a look at this article.
http://gigaom.com/apple/access-your-time-capsule-over-the-internet/
seems to do what you need it to
Let us know
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I want to buy a Time Capsule and leave it in my parents home. This way, when I back up to it from my apartment and while on the go, I will have a remote storage center without the fees.

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