I think that should happen if you elect to use InCD. You should check for Nero updates to be sure your versions are current.
I recently installed a new DVD burner in my computer. It came with Nero burning software and InCD. But I have lost the XP function that burns files onto a CD. I have turned on autoplay on the burner "properties" but it doesn't bring up the first screen or recognise the disk at all. When I choose "autoplay" nothing happens. I have also had to put a new shortcut to the drive in my "send to" folder but it doesn't work either.