Disable WiFi when gaming since interference is common and for gaming you want to keep it wired.
Disable this -> https://www.howtogeek.com/224981/how-to-stop-windows-10-from-uploading-updates-to-other-pcs-over-the-internet/ (after you read it, it will make sense.)
Don't share your Internet during gaming. Netflix will kill your gaming experience.
Later on at night wheater I am trying to play games or just read some articles I get lag spikes and my ping hits over 1000. I have reset my router a couple times as well as unplugging and re plugging ethernet and broadband cables. Any other ways i can eliminate these lag spikes or find the source of the issue?