How strange.
All the Airport cards, 11b, had female connectors on them. The receptacle had the male pins.
As far as I am aware, there is no adapter available as the problem should not exist.
If you still have the OLD G4, I would look inside the Airport card holder and see if you have left behind a chunk of the Airport Card. This "might" explain why your Airport card has pins on it and why the new slot support seems to be longer than the old one. The Airport card "could" be shorter because there is a chunk missing.
Check the pictures at http://www.macwireless.com/html/products/11g_11b_cards/airportcard.php where you will see an 11b airport card and, more importantly, an adapter for the iMac. Note the male pins on the adapter.
Go back and check that you have not left something behind
P
I had an airport card in my MD G4.When the G4 broke down, I found a "same" G4 MD.But the card has a male connector and the "new" has a male receptor????? the suport in the new G4 is longer then in my old G4. Does any one knows how to solve? is there an adapter of some sort?
thanks for any sugestion.
Peter

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