Figured it out and I feel like a moron. The router has a feature called *User access control* and it was turned on. As soon as I turned it off, BOOM! access.
Thank you for all of your help.
I have Netgear WGR614V9 router w/current firmware update, New Acer Netbook Aspire One D257-1417 That wont connect to my router. Worked fine at the library on their wifi and hard wired to my router but not wifi. Installed all client, service and protocols on the adapter, set the router to open, have the netbook set to auto and not static, got the drivers for the wfif adapter from ACER while at the library. Shut off windows firewall and turned off AV. Tech saavy so dont worry about dumming down.