The VPN is where you get your machine to behave as if you were on that LAN. Some folk confuse this with access to their server or home computer. So if it's setup right, your VPN destination is the internet IP of the router. That's it.
Done.
Bob
I have an Asus RT-AC66U which comes with an on-board VPN Server which I have set up and have successfully connected to over LAN. I live in an apartment complex which provides internet to it's residents through a DHCP server. My question is, how do I access my VPN server through my apartments DHCP server? I can find out the IP of the complex, and I know the IP of the router. So is there a way to connect using these two IP addresses?
Thank you for your time,

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