Since it's all new(ish) gear you have a warranty issue. If they can't resolve it then you return the defective gear for something else.

HDMI ARC can be so bad that most of us write "what a mess" and give the nod to the usual RECEIVER SYSTEMS.

That said did you try all the usual setups? That is the player to the TV on a NON-ARC port and then the ARC port to the bar? Do you have the other option of optical to the bar?