VHS and Betamax were different systems for recording and playing video tapes. They were not compatible with each other. The nearest you could say to operating systems is to compare Windows with Mac OS, or Mac and Linux, and so on. They are all different OSs based on different core instructions.
Windows 32 bit and 64 bit are all based on the same core instruction set, and while there will be some incompatibilities, the basic structure is the same.
But I wouldn't worry too much about any lack of 64 bit hardware or software. Hardware manufacturers and software developers are now clamouring to provide 64 bit versions, and you won't struggle with that nowadays.
I haven't noticed any lack of software with both my 64 bit Vista and Windows 7.
What you may find is that older components, such as printers, scanners, and such things, 'may not work' with 64 bit systems, and if that is the case then we have to move to newer peripherals.
Mark
I see where most new systems are 64bit and one is hard pressed to find a 32bit system. I've heard friends complain that there wasn't enough programs running 64bit software. Could the 32bit vs 64bit OS be compared to the old VHS vs BETA and we all know how that turned out.

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