what your budget is - or what camcorder you are using.
For the low-end, check the SunPak Platinum Plus (BestBuy). No fluid head, but that can be changed - and it exceeds your height requirement.
For the high end, the K-Pod tripod system is amazing (and likely overkill as it was designed to support their crane).
You need to get the quick-release plate separately and the accessory selection (hard or air-filled or dolly-track wheels, spike feet, aan adjstable seat (I can stand on this tripod, that is how strong it is), and the Hercules fluid-head make for a great kit and the case is impressive, but it is very heavy (60+ pounds?).
There are a bunch of Bogen-Mafrotto or Libec selections in between the two...