You can't, unless you happen to be a very attractive woman and fully exploit your "assets" to convince someone in IT (who hopefully isn't a straight woman (yes, there are a few)) to set up an exception for you.
Failing that, you're screwed, that's all there is to it. Any attempt to circumvent this will likely land your friend in some very serious trouble with the campus IT people.
Friend can connect and use remote assistance on my machine (home), but I cannot connect to friend's machine because they are behind college router/firewall.
How do I configure windows remoteassistance OR remotelyanywhere software to allow the connection?
Reverse proxy, listen on port, yadayada. I can get the external and internal ip for the college friend but port forwarding is not an option.
Thanks in advance