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Restore it, or look for a new Rom and flash it, all software and date will be destroyed. By the way, I think you ex is a petty minded people. Sorry.
But is there a way for.me.to prove he's doing.it? But thank u for.telling.me.how to fix it:)
The only way to prove it .....
.....would be to take it to a specialist who could verify what applications may be installed on the phone. I think your ex is full of it and only attempting to keep controlling you with intimidation. I won't say it would be impossible for him to do it though. Your cellular carrier won't be able to help in this case.
He wont.admit he has done.this, but i can text my friend (thats a girl) and ten minutes later he texts me saying so ur.just gonna make plans without me...and.this has happened multiple times in all different situations..and hes a phone genius so its the only thing that makes sense..are there any specific apps u are aware of that he couod.be doing.this with
I will agree that....
....a restore of the phone will remove any applications that could spy on you. One drawback is that you would need to re-install any applications that you added previously and want to keep. Get rid of the jerk, anyone who threatens or does monitor you is not worth keeping.
oh i am getting rid of him
Just dont need him always knowing where i am
..problem is he wont admit it and plays it off that im crazy..thats why im trying to just get the proof
What a you doing behind his back
Are you really hiding something?
What are you doing behind his back that you are so worried about?
Spying is impossible via new smartphones, unless it's a paid family track service added from your carrier, like gps tracking and such.
I there a reason why he thinks you are doing something behind his back?
You said I don't need him to know where I always am, well what are you out doing that you don't want him to know?
I think you need to question what your doing that makes him think that and your statement makes it seem like there is some flandering going on that you don't want him to know about?
I seen websites online about the spying but you need to provide proof the phone is yours, a id scan and much more, any app would show up in the application list and would be obvious . if you look on the app store there are no apps avail that do anything like you are saying besides gps track, but with gps off they a useless.
I think it more of a scare tactic, but i think you need to question what u are doing that you don't want him him know about and if you are, then maybe it's time you end the relationship instead of playing game.
Treating the OP like a criminal without any proof? The OP doesn't have to prove her innocence to anyone on this forum.
Let's keep this discussion civil and on the topic of the thread title instead of playing judge and jury.
There is always two sides to a story.
It goes like this, if the police are watching you, you must be doing some illegal activity, if a husband is worried his wife is cheating, she must be having some wierd behavior.
It goes both ways, I offered insight to both sides that needs to be asked.
Granted this isn't a relationship forum, but truth be told you can't answer one question without asking the other.
actually.it goes like this
His last.gf cheated...so he thinks I will too... I don't do **** except work/run my own.business and take.care.of.my.baby sister.who I have custody of...so before u think u know someones life maybe u should think again..this isn't a relationship forum where I asked why my bf is spying on me...its about.phones correct?
But this is a forum where open dialog is allowed, do not indulge certain facts if you don't want to get called out on them.
The phone and issue you brought up go hand and hand.
Infidelity and gps tracking, questioning and shows like cheaters go hand and hand.
In fact a known statistic is that Facebook is a huge killer of relationships.
like birdman said i have nothing.to explain
But if texting my.brother or a.female friend is.wrong.then someone shoot me...its called.privacy that everyone is welcome to...if he wants to pay my bill he.can go threw it all he wants, but since i pay my bill im welcome to text friwnds and family or who ever i want.if he.doeant trust me then she shouldnt.be.with me, no need to be a stalker or insecure...idk u so i shouldnt even have to tell u this, but ive.never.heated.on anyone and.never.would..so there.is.nothing to hide.its called id.just like mu.privacy
And that's very understandable
I dived right into the subject above with insight to both statements.
A simple phone wipe will erase everything in the phone, contacts and all if not backed up.
I don't honestly think it's more on the impossible than possible, those type of apps are not legal and not available on your app store or Google play store.
Sorry if I touched a nerve, but you saying "I just don't need him always knowing where I am" is highly suspect and seems to trend towards gps tracking, which easily can be defeated with turningthe gps off.
But please, if you are not being faithful or doing something behind someone's back, spare your mate the heart ache and just end it.
I was lead on for 10 years by my wife who was having a affair with a co worker, i gave her the most slack anyone could have and the utmost trust. If some spy app was available, legal and actually worked, i would of known about it and wish I had it in my arsenal to save me the time, the heart ache and disrespect I received after I found out.
But best of luck and hope your phone really isn't tapped
Check the app list, go through every app, delete things you don't need and unless he is a government employee with access to that type of software I wouldn't worry.
It could be a simple case of he getting in your phone when you step into that bathroom, it only takes a second.
Boy are you a piece of work
At least give the poor woman some credit instead of sounding like dear abby. Sheesh(!)
Yes. And it's in today's news. Link follows.
Hope this clears up the fact that no guru is needed today.
But I think you need more than a magician to hide.
may be he instanded some app in your phone, reset your phone for having a try