Try bengalbot(dot)com for advice. Also, look for the Bluespoon Spider headset. It's A2DP (stereo). You can control your music via the hradset (it covers both ears). When a phone call comes in the music pauses. It does not have a boom mike. Check out that site and the reviews. I was lucky enought to beta test a model. It's great!
with the headphones ON and the flip closed.I find it very difficult to ride my bike with the flip open. Also, can i install another player like realone on my v3i? Can u gimme a link for more cool applications to install on my newly bought v3i?