Go ahead and click on my username and click on the "email" link to send me a directly email so I can help you with this name change.
As for your side note about allowing members to be change your own username, we are in the process of working this out to allow for this--stay tuned.
Thanks for your feedback!
I've looked around to find some way to change my CNET username myself but haven't found anything. Apparently this is the best way to do it. If anyone could help me with changing this, that would be most appreciated.
On a side note, maybe being able to change one's username should be a capability under each user's profile preferences.